September 9, 2013

Do You Have 'Introvert' or 'Extrovert' friends ?



                Have you ever met someone that really hard to get close to? Or someone that has a bunch of friends and popular? Well, those people have their own behavior socially and psychologically. Hippocrates summerise those characters into four different types of wich will we discuss on the next article. Those characters are Sanguine, Choleric, Melancholic, Phlegmatic. Sanguine and Choleric are extrovert, Melancholic and Phlegmatic are introvert. We will discuss what is the characters or indocaor of extrovert and introvert in this article. Check this out!


Introvert


Quiet and calm are the most behavior they show. They also rarely searching for attention. They shy when they meet new people. And when they speak in front of people, you can see the situation getting pretty awkward and clumsy.
Introvert people don’t have much friends as the extrovert people do. They prefer to wait for people to get closer to them. For example, in a class with 25 students within, there is one girl who almost never talk. She only talk if someone asks her something. After that, she never talks. It takes almost 3 years of senior high school for her to get best friends. Lucky her, she has extrovert friends, so she get so many friends from her extrovert friends. Basicly, they are clumsy. But not all introvert people do, some of them are easy to get talk if you get closer to them. Introvert people also rarely change tehir emotions rapidly. Maybe thay also a good secretkeeper.


So these are the indicator of introvert :

-  Quiet and calm
-  Have nearly stabile emotions
-  Some of them are awkward and clumsy
-  Don’t have much friends as extrovert people do
-  Shy and clumsy
-  They don’t like rush at something
-  If you want to be their friend, you have to come to them
-  Sometimes, they are invisible to some people


Extrovert

                Most of extrovert people are confident to show themself. They also never shy to express their feelings. Unlike introvert people who are smart to hide their feelings.
               
                  If you compare introvert people to extrovert people, you can see the differences very clearly. People always know that the extrovert people are “exist”. What we mean “exist” here is people remember them, people know their presence. They also socially active in their relationship with people. And, don’t expect to act as quiet and calm as intrivert people do. We’re not sure wether they can do that in a long time.

                Another example, there’s a boy in a primary school. And he’s popular. Rumour has it, his friends always ask his unattandance at school. They also said that, sometimes he is the “ice-breaker” of the day. Almost everyone at school know him. And when he meet new people, he won’t be shy enough to introduce himself first. He also very open-minded.
         

 In summary, these are the indicators of extrovert people :
~  Confident
~  Active socially
~  Never shy to express themself
~  Most of them are popular among their friends
~  Open-minded
~  Their emotions changement are faster than introvert
~  Know many people a.k.a. popular


That’s all the discussion. From article, I hope you will understand some people with their own characteristic, so you can have better relation with people around you.
Thank you for reading this article, and leave us some comments ;)




Written by : Agnes Wong

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